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| Children know how to love naturally |
You are your own Healer and if you don't love yourself you will never heal. Accept yourself as you are, try to improve, but do not set impossible goals, be practical. Love yourself unconditionally. You are Unique, you are the best you have. Don't hate yourself for who you are or who you are not. Don't hate yourself because you are not like others want you to be. Do not try to be special to defend your dignity and try to be "a unique disfigured, a lie, a hoax" that does not exist. Be yourself and you will be a "True One" with a value that only corresponds to the "Unique and Original Works of Art", with an incalculable value. Love yourself for who you are.
Follow your Mission in Life and do not judge yourself negatively, learn from your "mistakes and failures" that never are while you are acting with Love and enjoying your Life.
You have the right to be Loved for who you are, you do not need to buy Love by pretending to be "someone" that you are not. Don't follow "fads," or outside traditions or beliefs that just make you self-conscious and want your money.
Let no one try to convince you of how it should or should not be. People who think they are their clothes, their money, their possessions will never be happy. So no one tries to convince you that it has to be one way or another to be happy. "A blind man cannot guide a blind man"
Do, Act, Live as you wish, with Love, a lot of Self-Love. Trust your Inner Child, yourself and He will guide you, because He is the best who knows you.
Relate to others in a positive way, Love others. Our relationships must be based on Love, be they relationships as a couple, parental, friendly, work, social.
Loving relationships are healthy relationships. Relationships based on Fear, Interest, Convenience, Use, Control, Intimidation, etc. They are not healthy relationships because they take away our Free Will and do not allow us to be Ourselves.
Love others as Yourself and if they do not Love You, it will not bother you at all, it will not make you suffer, it will not make you sick, because your Love is Unconditional and Selfless. Love that is not reciprocal returns to the one who "sends" it and Heals it. Selfless Love is "above" Sorrows, Heartbreak, Bad Conscience, Feelings of Guilt, Worries and a long etcetera.
But how to realize that relationships in our life are Loving and Positive and which ones are not?
Simple. In every relationship in which you have to play "a role" as if it were in a play it is not a loving relationship, on the other hand, in any relationship where you can be Yourself if it is a loving and positive relationship.
Change, be Yourself in all your relationships, Love (Be Yourself) or eliminate that negative relationship from your Life. Do not be afraid of losing "friends" or "loved ones" who are neither your friends nor your loved ones. Love Heals, Fear (in all its aspects) makes you sick.
Love Creation as Yourself and Love God because You are Creation and without Divine Creation and without God you will find yourself alone and ill. Love is neither Created nor Destroyed, Love flows through the Beings of Good Heart towards Beings of Good Heart as Springs of the Water of Life, Healing Bodies and Souls.
