The healing child or healing link (black sheep of each family), who is always sick, who always suffers, who always complains, may very well be a burden on the family.
What the family does not know is that, thanks to that "black sheep", the family remains balanced, since the healing child absorbs the negative energies that would make the rest of the family members sick if he did not exist.
So, then, should we separate ourselves from the one or those who feel bad because of our own sufferings and illnesses? Apart from the extreme selfishness that such a procedure entails, who would heal us then?
Damián Alvarez at http://sistemasanaciontinerfe.blogspot.com/
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