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| Feeling Happy while you are alone is the Great and Only Happiness |
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I already knew that most supposed friendships are based on fear and not love, and that person who talks a lot about "their people" usually has no friends, perhaps none. Human relationships are generally based on need (a form of fear) and not selfless love.
In any case, the system has made many people feel unhappy because they do not have friends, a partner, children, colleagues, etc. Loneliness has been symbolized in the media, and in recent decades on the Internet, as something negative.
I once wrote that "it is better to be alone than in good company", that is, that the best of company will never surpass the happiness that can be found in oneself, within oneself, in one's soul, in oneself along with nature, together with the universe, together with the creator.
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| Aberrant that they make us believe that loneliness is something negative |
Don't be fooled, loneliness is nothing negative, let's try to re-convert it into a positive archetype . Great works are created in solitude. Geniuses who change the world are born in solitude. In solitude we approach ourselves to understand ourselves, change if necessary and develop. Self-diagnosis and healing happen in solitude. In solitude we contemplate, meditate and allow ourselves to be contemplated. In solitude we think for ourselves, and not in a programmed way. In solitude we analyze and question what is established (something that does not seem to interest the system).
Solitude is the precursor to the transcendence of our loving energies towards others. Solitude is peace, calm, well-being, calm, depth.
We do not go through life alone but we create our life consciously.
Of course, to feel good, to feel happy in solitude, you must be happy for yourself. But it's always like that, isn't it? Parties and revelry, the stress that can be caused by gatherings of many friends with loud music in the background, alcohol, lots of laughter, laughter, euphoria, are just a method of evasion from a self-reality that we do not want to encounter while we are alone.
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| If you feel bad in Soledad it is not because you are alone but because you are Unhappy. |
It's not really that we are unhappy when we are alone, although that could be, since we have been convinced that loneliness is horrible, but that, in solitude, we find our unhappiness. Finding yourself and feeling that you "do not feel good" is a good first step to think, plan, try to improve, change, help yourself or ask for help if you think it is appropriate.
We also know that nothing and no one can bring us happiness, not even a thousand friends. If we feel bad we feel bad and if we are happy we are happy, period.
The shame with this whole story is that every day there are more and more negative archetypes that are created by people or entities that tell us that "it is happiness or it is not", and then manipulate us with those false hopes, and at the same time sell their products.
It is nice to share happiness with friends, but no friend will give you that happiness, but you can share it with them and they with you if you have it within you, if not, how can you share something that you don't have?
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| Let's make a better world: Solitude is also wonderful |
So company is not synonymous with happiness, and loneliness is not synonymous with unhappiness, far from it, but rather the opposite.
Absurd to see all those photographs that swarm the Internet, and that are really giving people who are alone a complex. The truth is that it is a psychological abuse towards all those people who for "ho for b" do not have a family, partner, colleagues, friends.
If you search the Internet for the word "loneliness" you will only find dark, dull, black and white photographs of people with their hands on their faces and their heads down, that is, sad, very sad people.
We must change that archetype, and we can do it. We can fill the Internet with photographs of lonely and happy people, full of peace, love and joy, smiling people who would illuminate the world, because if we continue on the "path" we are going, believing what others tell us what happiness is, then at the same time In the end, happiness would be seen as a utopia instead of a reality, and happiness is the natural state of the human being, so we all deserve it for the mere fact of having been born.
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Damián Alvarez at http://sistemasanaciontinerfe.blogspot.com/
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