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| Feeling Happy while you are alone is the Great and Only Happiness |
The other day I realized how the system tries to instill in us that we must have many friends to be happy, of course with the product that those "friends" want to sell through. Everything is sold under the unwritten slogan of "you have to have a lot of friends to be happy," from beers and cell phones to travel.
I already knew that most of the supposed friendship relationships are based on fear and not on love, and that person who talks a lot about "his people" does not usually have friends, perhaps none. Human relationships are generally based on need (a form of fear) and not on selfless love.
In any case, the system has made many people feel unhappy because they do not have friends, partners, children, colleagues, etc. Loneliness has been symbolized in the media, and in recent decades on the Internet, as something negative.
I once wrote that "it is better to be alone than in good company", that is, that the best of companies will never surpass the happiness that can be found in itself, in its interior, in its soul, in itself next to the nature, next to the universe, next to the creator.
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| Aberrant that make us believe that Loneliness is something Negative |
Disappear, loneliness is nothing negative, let's try to re-convert it into a positive archetype . In solitude great works are created. In solitude, the geniuses that change the world are born. In solitude we get closer to ourselves to understand ourselves, change if necessary and develop. In solitude, self-diagnosis and healing take place. In solitude we contemplate, meditate, and allow ourselves to be contemplated. In solitude we think for ourselves, and not in a programmed way. In solitude we analyze and question what is established (which seems not to be of interest to the system).
Loneliness is the precursor of the transcendence of our loving energies towards others. Solitude is peace, quiet, well-being, calm, depth.
In solitude we do not go through life but we create our life conscientiously.
Of course, to feel good, to feel happy in solitude, you must be happy for yourself. But it's always like that, isn't it? Parties and merrymaking, the stress that can be caused by the meetings of many friends with loud music in the background, alcohol, a lot of laughter, laughter, euphoria, are only a method of escaping from a self-reality with which we do not want to meet while we are alone.
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| If you feel bad in Solitude it is not because you are alone but Unhappy |
It is not really that we are unhappy when we are alone, although it could be, since we have been convinced that loneliness is horrible, but, in solitude we find our unhappiness. Finding yourself and feeling that you "don't feel good" is a good first step to think, plan, try to improve, change, help yourself or ask for help if you think it is convenient.
We also know that nothing and no one can bring us happiness, not even a thousand friends. If we feel bad we feel bad and if we are happy we are happy, period.
The pity with all this story is that every day there are more and more negative archetypes that are created by people or entities that tell us that "it is or it is not happiness", and then manipulate us with those false hopes, and at the same time sell their products.
Beautiful is to share happiness with friends, but that happiness will not be given to you by any friend but you can share it with them and they with you if they have it inside you, if not, how can you share something that you don't have?
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| Let's make a better world: Solitude is also Wonderful |
So company is not synonymous with happiness, and loneliness is not synonymous with unhappiness, far from it, but rather the opposite.
Absurd to see all those photographs that swarm the Internet, and that are really making people who are alone a complex. The truth is that it is a psychic abuse towards all those people who by "ho por b" have no family, partner, colleagues, friends.
If you search the Internet for the word "loneliness" you will only find dark, muted, black and white photographs of people with their hands on their faces and their heads down, that is, sad people, very sad.
We must change that archetype, and we can. We can fill the Internet with photographs of lonely and happy people, full of peace, love and joy, smiling people who would light up the world, because if we continue on the "path" we are going, believing what others tell us what happiness is, In the end, happiness would be seen as a utopia instead of a reality, and happiness is the natural state of the human being, so we all deserve it for the mere fact of being born.
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Damián Alvarez at https://sistemasanaciontinerfe.blogspot.com/
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