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| Energetic or Needy Vampire. choose your answer |
Not long ago, it has been seen, read, heard, in the media, the Internet, social networks, etc., that we must distance ourselves from negative people. Phrases like: "Do not allow others to use your mind as a garbage can", "stay away from negative people", "separate yourself from those who always come telling you their problems", "negative people are energetic parasites", "don't let them steal your energy", "those who complain are energy vampires, etc., etc., etc.
Believe me, those who dare to say such emphatic affirmations consider themselves spiritual guides, religious leaders, scientists, doctors and professors, and even psychologists. Believe me that those who dare to say such resounding statements consider themselves the brilliant minds, the enlightened minds of humanity.
How sad it is to hear the above! I am aware that thinking negatively, complaining, is not beneficial for anyone, but not everyone who complains complains out of habit or vice (although there could be some). The person who complains is because he suffers. The negative person is, because she is emotionally ill, and of course, both one and the other need our help and attention, and not "that we separate from them."
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| The Negative person does not choose their Suffering of their own free will. |
There are several aspects that should be addressed when we talk about this topic:
The psychic or energetic aspect: A person is negative because they are frustrated, embarrassed and traumatized. Energetic blockages in the Heart Chakra, Solar Plexus and Sacral, turn anyone into a sad, depressed, sad, bitter and negative being, so we can consider these people mentally ill.
A depressed person will impossibly be able to think positive. A traumatized person will be unable to think positively. A frustrated person will be unable to think positively. Negative thoughts, feelings, emotions are just a symptom of a real disease.
It doesn't help if you tell a negative, depressed, traumatized person, etc., “think positive”, because simply a negative, depressed, traumatized person cannot think positive because they are sick, and they don't need words but healing.
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| Do not be selfish. Never abandon the one who needs your help |
The professional aspect: It amuses me that certain so-called high-ranking psychologists are capable of calling sick people parasites and energy vampires. If these so-called psychologists (for me, they are not) believe that we should separate ourselves from negative people, then what patients do they want to have? Healthy, balanced, positive, cheerful, optimistic and happy people. Happy people don't need psychologists, hey!
The nonsense or aberration of a "psychologist" saying "separate yourself, stay away from negative people", conclusively demonstrates not only that the psychologist in question needs psychological help, but also that he has no heart. I say the same when the postulates that are discussed are expressed by scientists, religious, spiritual guides,... It's like a doctor saying separate yourself from sick people, totally absurd!
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| You would abandon your son if he complained about his suffering... |
The human aspect: Would you separate from your mother, father or your children because they complained or were negative? Would you abandon them in their grief and suffering? Have you never complained or had negative thoughts? What should we do when we have negative thoughts, or complain, according to these people, take our lives?
Understand that the negative person, the person who complains, may just need a few words of encouragement, flattery, a bit of moral support, a pat on the back, someone to listen and give them a hug or hold their hand. hand.
Have we forgotten, perhaps, about love, empathy, compassion, what really characterizes the human being and differentiates him from the beasts?
Have we not already separated ourselves enough from those who suffer, such as the 6,000 children who die of hunger every day on the planet, who still also want to separate us from our closest beings?
... and what about "love your neighbor", "we are all one and come from the same source", "union, solidarity, support", "love your enemies". Was Jesus Christ wrong according to those religious leaders, guides spiritual and psychologists, when he said that every time we helped our neighbor, we were really helping him? Was Jesus Christ wrong when he said that we should love our neighbor's son the same as our own? I don't think so...
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| Why Separate Us from Reality, why not, better Help |
The "spiritual development" aspect: In these culminating moments of humanity's spiritual development, where the so-called "quantum leaps" seem endless. In these moments when God wants us to realize that we are all one, that humanity and the rest of creation are an indivisible unit, it seems to me that it makes little sense to talk about separatism and discrimination. We all feel for everyone and as long as there is even only one on planet Earth, who suffers, we will suffer with him.
Separating ourselves from others because they think, speak negatively, complaining about their hardships seems totally absurd to me, because we have all complained from time to time, because we have all been negative from time to time.
Understand that every time we separate from someone, we are really separating from ourselves, because we are all, because we are more than independent beings, we are one, with others, creation and with God.
We healers know that many people are awakening to the one true reality on display at this time ("we are one"). Many people are becoming aware that we are all united, therefore, the one who complains because he suffers, perhaps he is only feeling your suffering in his own body and soul.
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| Do not leave me. I just needed help to heal you |
In my books "Interaction and Energetic Resonance between Human Beings", "Respire Reiki", "The Solar Plexus, the Sun of your Life" and Sacral Chakra, Passion of Life" (see: http://www.bubok.es /autores/damianalvarez ) I explain in a logical and sincere way how human beings feel and can suffer the diseases, dysfunctions and energetic blockages of other human beings, and that all diseases are contagious, at least at an energetic level. I also present many cases real from life itself.
The healing child or healing link (black sheep of every family), who is always sick, who always suffers, who always complains, may very well be a burden to the family. What the family does not know is that thanks to this "black sheep", the family remains balanced, since the healing child absorbs the negative energies that would make the rest of the family members sick if he did not exist. So, then, should we separate ourselves from the one or those who feel bad because of our own sufferings and illnesses? Apart from the extreme selfishness that such a procedure entails, who will heal us then?
I do not recommend that you separate yourself from those who complain, nor from negative people. Try to understand that if they complain it is because they suffer, even if we do not see "their cross". Try to get closer, help, accompany, listen, console, encourage,... Try to Love and Heal your neighbor because we are all children of the same God and therefore "soul brothers", "brothers of light".
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| Mutual help. Divine essence that transcends us, Uniting us |
Also, do not follow the roll of those (misnamed) spiritual guides, religious leaders, scientists, psychologists, etc., who advise you to do the opposite of my recommendations. Do not believe anything because "a brilliant mind of humanity" says it, try to think for yourself, and thus they will not deceive you, they will not separate you from your brothers.
For me, and I say it with my heart in my hand, those supposed guides and spiritual leaders of humanity, who preach, promoting separatism among human beings, are not "enlightened minds" by any means, rather "dark minds and sick". He does not become a spiritual guide, for example, one who throws a tunic of a certain color over his body, after having shaved his head. Spirituality is demonstrated with facts and "by its fruits you will know the tree".
Keep in mind that the first to complain have been those people we are talking about, because they complain about those who complain, and the separatist position they demonstrate is totally negative.
Do not separate yourself from others, do not dig your own grave, because there will come a day when you also need the help of others, and you will find yourself alone.
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| Do not separate yourself from anyone, since the rest is you. It is Divine Union |
Also keep in mind that garbage is not what a negative person can transmit to you, but what certain leaders try to instill in your mind.
Perhaps they are not aware of their words, perhaps they have been manipulated to manipulate, perhaps it is a worldwide conspiracy promoted by forces still unknown, so that the human being weakens in their separation. What is clear is that such barbarity is up to Hitler's philosophy, so do not be an accomplice, because in the end they will blame your decisions only on you. Remember, that today, it is often heard that the blame for the massacre of World War II did not lie with Hitler, but with us who allowed it, likewise, they will blame you for the spiritual massacre that is "sewing" " and "cooking".
Do not allow anything, or anyone, to separate you from others, let alone put that scandalous idea in your head. One of the first things I usually teach my students is "everything I try to separate does not come from God" , but if you still doubt my words, remember the following from Jesus Christ: "That all may be One; like You, O Father , in me, and I in You, that They also be one in Us" (John 17:21)
PS Anyone who believes that the feelings and emotions of a human being, whether they are positive or negative, are rubbish, yes, it is rubbish (I needed to say it).
Damian Alvarez at http://sistemasanaciontinerfe.blogspot.com.es/
