How to Heal Your Inner Child

Your Inner Child suffers from Sorrows, Traumas and Frustrations
. Do you recognize yourself?

Have you ever thought why we separate from ourselves, from our inner child, or do they separate us? What need would we have to separate ourselves from ourselves and why do we do it?

Society, culture, religions, our parents, first deceive us to believe that things must be a certain way for them to be good, for us to do well in life, for us to be someone and succeed, and then we they are filled with "no's", fears and the impossible, which do not allow us to achieve those things, be in those ways, and even less "succeed in life" to become "someone".

The child educated, not in a positive/negative duality, but rather in a negative unity, learns to interpret a world in a way that will be cruel to himself.

Traumas do not exist if we were not taught to suffer traumas. The same thing happens with sorrows or frustrations. A negative education embarrasses, traumatizes and frustrates. Unconditional love is not taught, the child is not educated to live with love, the only thing that would avoid any kind of suffering.

Not to mention the psychological, sentimental and emotional abuse that the child may suffer.

Understand that your Inner Child is Sick. Heal your life
Do you recognize yourself?

The sorrowful inner child will rebel against whoever wants to love him unconditionally because what he thought was love has abandoned him. In this case, the child may not have felt loved enough, perhaps abandoned by who he thought loved him or perhaps he thought he was unlovable. We all have affective deficiencies. The emotionally wounded inner child will be torn between love, fear, hate, interest, distrust, and jealousy.

The traumatized child who was upset when what he may have done at the time or happened to him was "something wrong." Not living up to the circumstances, to the expectations of the parents, or just being traumatized because they have been educated to do so, creates a self-conscious child full of shame, fear, insecurities. This child compares himself to others and will use vanity, arrogance, pride as masks, to appear who he thinks he should be according to the education instilled by his parents. He really is a failed child who lives looking for ugliness, failures, mistakes, mistakes in others, to feel better about himself, and the worst thing is that he becomes a completely selfish being.

You are still on time. Don't settle for living on tantrums

The frustrated child, and therefore angry, due to repeated disappointments, caused by those who he thought loved him, and a method that perhaps once worked for him, taking advantage of the weakness of his parents such as a tantrum, create an aggressive child. , full of distrust, that when he does not get what he wants, he becomes aggressive. A child who "kicks" to get what he wants. An adult capable of anything to get away with it.

Damian Alvarez at  http://sistemasanaciontinerfe.blogspot.com/

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