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| Teaching and Consultation Book of the School of Love of the Tinerfe Healing System. Professor Damián Alvarez |
After many attempts in my life to explain to other people that we DO NOT know how to live with love, that we DO NOT know how to love, that we do not even know what love is, and to fail in a great way, to create a real School of Love, perhaps the first in the world is my project, where we all learn to truly love.
Many people have been angry with me when I have told them that they do not know how to love since they believed that love was innate in every human being and that love should not be learned but that we are all born learned. Indeed, that is how it should be. When we are born we are very close to ourselves, God, love and loving, but, over time, our parents first, and then the religious, educational, social, and even economic system educate us to live without love, we they educate to live in fear.
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| Life is a School of Love. He who does not love suspends |
A selfish education based on "first and last me". A materialistic education that elevates consumerism comparing it to the worth of the human being, and if you cannot consume you are nobody, you are not somebody. An education based on concerns, insecurities, doubts, needs, profit, interest, that is, an education based on fear, separates us from ourselves, from God and from love and loving.
It's really no one's fault. In schools, institutes, universities or families, people are not educated to love. If you don't know how to love, you don't love, or how would you do it? Really also, that we love if we know but the erroneous education to which we have been subjected has buried that love so deeply under so many years of fear that it will be very difficult, and in a few moments in life, to come to the surface of the human heart. and express yourself.
We live believing that we love because we believe that what they have taught us is love, but they have deceived us and they continue to deceive us daily: "The one who buys more gifts at Christmas does not love any more," "He does not love his partner any more. he buys him the most valuable jewel. " He loves who distributes the money he earns with the parents of the children who are in need. He loves who helps a stranger to get a job so he can support his wife.
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| Let us take advantage of our earthly life. Let's be smart: Let's love |
Loving family members is supposed to be normal but we are a global family, we are all one. The whole of humanity is a family, it should be.
Class struggles, power struggles, careers after money and ephemeral materialism leaves no room to love, or to love anyone, or to love God.
The system does not make it easy either by promoting maternal love, brotherly love, love in pairs, creating groups that do not love humanity but live locked in a lie, while the rest of the world falls apart because we destroy it.
Sex with a partner is not love. Love is love and sex is sex. Don't be afraid of a hug and don't mistake it for sex because that's just fear. They never hugged you, never said "I love you", and that is why you look for that hug and that "I love you" in the arms of a sexual relationship? I feel sorry for you but you have the right to be loved only because you exist and also, not by a few or one, but by all members of the human race.
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