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| The Message of Love Songs. Psychic and Emotional Abuse |
Why is it that we identify with the (misnamed) love songs?
We identify with songs that are supposedly about love, although they only sing the supposed regret and suffering of separations, loneliness, distance, death, jealousy, heartbreak, sorrow, etc. because we are people who suffer.
Love songs (misnamed) always deal with love as a couple, romantic love, sexual love. These songs do not sing of true love, of the love that magnifies and makes human beings happy. They do not sing to the love of all and for all but to the love between two.
Of course, if love, or what is believed to be love, only takes place between two people, when one lacks it, the other suffers for two reasons: First, because of attachment, because all love has been poured into one direction, towards your partner. Second, because it is an interested love and not a true love. True love does not make you suffer because it is completely selfless.
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| The Education that causes Suffering cannot be based on Love |
If we look at the lyrics of (supposedly) love songs, whether old or modern, we will find the suffering factor in all of them. Songs that talk about "I can't live without you", that "when you left me you broke my heart", that "without you I am nothing", that "it is better to love and suffer than to have never loved", that " life has no meaning without your love", etc, etc., etc.
What is totally clear is that those who write the lyrics of those songs are people who suffer, that is, people who are sick, in pain, sad, distressed, sad, depressed.
But why are those songs that sing about suffering so popular? Perhaps because we feel like participants, perhaps because it comforts us to know that we are not the only ones who suffer. Most people sing other people's songs to express their own negative feelings and emotions. Perhaps, those songs are, in a certain way, therapeutic for some, but what is clear is that they are psychological abuse for the vast majority and sentimental and emotional abuse for each and everyone.
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| The predisposition to Suffering has been instilled, to a great extent, in human beings through the supposed Songs of Love. |
That you don't believe it Think that (to a large extent) those songs have been the ones that have taught you or mistaught you (rather) to "love". Those songs are impregnated in your subconscious, which makes you live in fear from the first moment you fall in love, ... because according to those songs, love makes you suffer.
I have always believed and still believe that relationships out of necessity or interest are pathetic. The (supposedly) love songs that talk about "without you I am nobody, without you I am nothing, without you I cannot live, without you life has no meaning", etc. They are fostering relationships out of necessity. Impossibly the disease can be the cure. If the song incited you to suffer, it cannot heal you, at most it teaches you to resign yourself to your suffering: "because that is how it is for everyone",...
...well no, that's not how it is, that's not how it should be. Love is life, joy, happiness, peace, trust, well-being.
Don't believe the lies in the songs that incite you to suffer anymore. Break with molds, traditions, erroneous teachings. Loving is wonderful, whether you reciprocate or not. You can love whoever you want whenever you want. There is no law that prohibits (for now) you from loving other people. Love, but love selflessly. Truly loves.
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| The True Songs of Love speak of Peace, Union, Love and Solidarity, not of separations, sufferings, loneliness |
On the other hand we have the songs that do speak of true love, of love between all beings. Songs that speak of solidarity, of sharing, of mutual aid. Songs that exalt and make the human being proud, but that are considered by some sick minds as "revolutionary songs", "sectarian songs", prohibited or almost prohibited.
The message of the so-called love songs is stated in such a blatantly clear way that it goes unnoticed by our conscious mind. The "trick" is that if I want to keep something hidden, then I don't hide it and nobody will notice it. That's right, neither more nor less. The negative messages, psychological abuse for anyone who has "lost" a love are so clear that we do not give them the importance they require.
Wake up! Don't be fooled anymore by what others want you to feel. He begins to feel for yourself. Educate yourself in the Art of Loving, the Art of Living.
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| Music Messages should be loaded with Love |
Among the thousands of songs called love songs that corrode the soul, misinforming, miseducating human beings in the art of love and living well, and deceiving them into believing that life is suffering, I present to you the following one, which is titled nothing more no less than "That's life." Of course that's not how life is, you won't believe it, but let it serve as an example of how we identify with songs that tell us what life and love are like, and without realizing it we hum them until they permeate our minds and heart, programming us towards suffering.
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| This is life. Life is Wonderful (without a doubt) |
THIS IS LIFE
Envy, jealousy and grudges
Successes and mistakes are faithful accomplices of love
Customs, doubts, uncertainties
Triumphs and failures are steps that the soul dances with love
Such is life, even if it hurts, you have to smile,
Such is life , that has touched us, to share
This is life, from the beginning, to the end
This is life, life is like this
Caresses, truths and lies,
Pleasures and wounds, every day love is born or dies
Kisses, free and prisoners ,
Tenderness and bitterness, madness is a friend of both and of love.
This is life, even if it hurts, you have to smile,
This is life, that we have had, to share
This is life, from the beginning, to the end
This is life, this is life This
is life, even if it hurts, you have to smile,
This is life, Life is like that,… That's how it is, life…
Successes and mistakes are faithful accomplices of love
Customs, doubts, uncertainties
Triumphs and failures are steps that the soul dances with love
Such is life, even if it hurts, you have to smile,
Such is life , that has touched us, to share
This is life, from the beginning, to the end
This is life, life is like this
Caresses, truths and lies,
Pleasures and wounds, every day love is born or dies
Kisses, free and prisoners ,
Tenderness and bitterness, madness is a friend of both and of love.
This is life, even if it hurts, you have to smile,
This is life, that we have had, to share
This is life, from the beginning, to the end
This is life, this is life This
is life, even if it hurts, you have to smile,
This is life, Life is like that,… That's how it is, life…
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| This is Love. Love (truly) is also Wonderful |
I have taken the liberty of marking in red the negative words and phrases in the supposed love song above. As you can see, there are more negative words than positive ones. Furthermore, it is stated "that this is how it is, that this is how it has to be."
Well no, that's not it. Maybe the life of the "soplagaitas" who wrote that song will be like this, but, of course, mine is not like that. My life is peace, love and happiness, joy and well-being, and I hope yours too.
Damian Alvarez
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