Energetic or Needy Vampire. Choose your Answer |
Not so long ago, it has been seen, read, heard, in the media, the Internet, social networks, etc., that we must stay away from negative people. Phrases like: "Do not allow others to use your mind as a garbage can", "stay away from negative people", "separate yourself from those who always tell you about their problems", "negative people are energy parasites", "no allow your energy to be stolen ”," those who complain are energetic vampires, etc., etc., etc.
Believe me, those who dare to say such resounding statements consider themselves spiritual guides, religious leaders, scientists, doctors and teachers, and even psychologists. Believe me, those who dare to say such resounding statements consider themselves the brilliant minds, the enlightened minds of humanity.
How sad it is to hear the above! I am aware that negative thinking, complaining, is not beneficial for anyone, but not everyone who complains, complains out of habit or vice (although there could be one). The person who complains is because he suffers. The negative person is, because he is psychically ill, and of course, both of them, they need our help and attention, and not "that we separate ourselves from them."
The Negative person does not choose his Suffering of his own free will |
There are several aspects that must be addressed when we talk about this topic:
The emotional or energetic aspect: A person is negative because he is frustrated, sorry and traumatized. Energetic blockages in the Heart, Solar Plexus and Sacral Chakra, turn anyone into a sad, depressed, sad, bitter and negative being, so we can consider these people to be psychically ill.
A depressed person can impossibly think positively. A traumatized person can impossibly think positively. An impossibly frustrated person will be able to think positively. Negative thoughts, feelings, emotions are just a symptom of a real illness.
It does not help that you say to a negative, depressed, traumatized person, etc., "think positive", because simply a negative, depressed, traumatized person cannot think positive because they are sick, and they do not need words but rather healing.
Do not be selfish. Never abandon those who need your help |
The professional aspect: It amuses me that certain alleged high-ranking psychologists are able to call sick people parasites and energetic vampires. If these supposed psychologists (for me, they are not) believe that we should separate ourselves from negative people, well, what patients do they want to have? Healthy, balanced, positive, happy, optimistic and happy people. Happy people don't need psychologists, hey!
The nonsense or aberration of a "psychologist" saying "separate yourself, stay away from negative people", shows forcefully not only that the psychologist in question needs psychological help, but also that he has no heart. I say the same when the postulates that are addressed are expressed by scientists, religious, spiritual guides, ... It is like a doctor saying separate yourself from sick people, totally absurd!
You would abandon your son if he complained about his suffering ... |
The human aspect: Would you separate yourself from your mother, father or children because they complained or were negative? Would you abandon them in their pain and suffering? Have you never complained or had negative thoughts? What should we do when we have negative thoughts, or complain, according to those people, to kill ourselves?
Understand that the negative person, the complaining person, may just need a few words of encouragement, compliment, a little moral support, a pat on the back, someone who will listen to you and give you a hug or take your hand.
Have we perhaps forgotten about love, empathy, compassion, what really characterizes the human being and differentiates him from the beasts?
Have we not already separated enough from those who suffer, such as the 6,000 children who starve to death every day on the planet, who still want to separate us from our closest ones as well?
… And that tells me of “love your neighbor”, “we are all one and we come from the same source”, “union, solitude, support", "love your enemies". Was Jesus Christ wrong according to those religious leaders, guides Spirituals and psychologists, when he said that every time we helped our neighbor, were we really helping him? Was Jesus Christ wrong when he said that we should love the neighbor's son as well as ours? I don't think so ...
Why Separate ourselves from Reality, why not, better Help |
The "spiritual development" aspect: In these culminating moments of humanity's spiritual development, where the so-called "quantum leaps" seem endless. In these moments in which God wants more than ever for us to realize that we are all one, that humanity and the rest of creation are an indivisible unit, it seems to me of little sense to speak of separatism and discrimination. We all feel of all and as long as there is even one on planet Earth, suffering, we will suffer with it.
Separating ourselves from others because they think, speak negatively, complaining about their hardships seems totally absurd to me, because we have all complained at some time, because we have all been negative at some time.
Understand that every time we separate from someone, we are really separating from ourselves, because we are all, because we are more than independent beings, we are one, with others, creation and with God.
We healers know that many people right now are waking up to the true and only reality exposed ("we are one"). Many people are becoming aware that we are all united, therefore, the one who complains because he suffers, perhaps he is only feeling your suffering in his own body and soul.
Do not leave me. I just needed help to heal you |
In my books "Interaction and Energy Resonance between Human Beings", "Breathe Reiki", "The Solar Plexus, the Sun of your Life" and the Sacral Chakra, Passion of Life "(see: http://www.bubok.es / authors / damianalvarez ) I explain in a logical and sincere way how the human being feels and can suffer the diseases, dysfunctions and energy blockages of other human beings, and that all diseases are contagious, at least at an energetic level. I also expose many cases real life itself.
The healing child or healing link (black sheep of each family), who is always sick, who always suffers, who always complains, may very well be a burden on the family. What the family does not know is that thanks to that "black sheep", the family remains balanced, since the healing child absorbs the negative energies that would make the rest of the family members sick if he did not exist. So, then, should we separate ourselves from him or those who feel bad because of our own sufferings and illnesses? Apart from the extreme selfishness that such a procedure entails, who will heal us then?
I do not recommend that you separate yourself from those who complain, nor from negative people. Try to understand that if they complain it is because they suffer, even if we do not see "her cross". Try to approach, help, accompany, listen, console, encourage, ... Try to Love and Heal your neighbor because we are all children of the same God and therefore "soul brothers", "brothers of light".
Mutual help. Divine essence that transcends us, Uniting us |
Also don't keep up with those (misnamed) spiritual guides, religious leaders, scientists, psychologists, etc., who advise you to do the opposite of my recommendations. Do not believe anything because it says "a brilliant mind of humanity", try to think for yourself, and thus they will not deceive you, they will not separate you from your brothers.
For me, and I say this with my heart in my hand, those supposed guides and spiritual leaders of humanity, who preach, promoting separatism among human beings, are far from "enlightened minds", rather "dark minds and sick. " There is no spiritual guide, for example, one who puts on a body of a certain color over his body, after having shaved his head. Spirituality is demonstrated with facts and "by its fruits you will know the tree".
Keep in mind that the first people to complain have been those people we are talking about, because they complain about those who complain, and the separatist stance they demonstrate is totally negative.
Do not separate yourself from others, do not dig your own grave, because the day will come when you also need the help of others, and you will find yourself alone.
Do not separate yourself from Nobody, since the others are You. It is Divine Union |
Keep in mind also, that garbage is not what a negative person can transmit to you but what certain leaders try to instill in your mind.
Perhaps they are not aware of their words, perhaps they have been manipulated to manipulate, perhaps it is a worldwide plot promoted by forces still unknown, so that the human being weakens in his separation. What is clear is that such nonsense is at the height of Hitler's philosophy, so do not be complicit, because in the end they will blame your decisions only on you. Remember, nowadays, it is often heard that the fault of the World War II massacre was not Hitler's, but that of us who allowed it, likewise, they will blame you for the spiritual massacre that is "sewing" "and" cooking ".
Do not allow anything, or anyone, to separate you from others, let alone put that scandalous idea in your head. One of the first things that I usually teach my students is "everything I try to separate does not come from God" , but if you still doubt my words, remember the following from Jesus Christ: "That they may all be One; like You, oh Father , in me, and I in You, that they too may be one in Us "(John 17:21)
PS Anyone who believes that the feelings and emotions of a human being, whether positive or negative are garbage, if it is garbage (he needed to say it).
Damián Alvarez article at http://sistemasanaciontinerfe.blogspot.com.es/
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