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| Soulmates do not exist, we are all unique |
I once wrote that "neither soul mates nor better halfs, only good love creates perfect couples".
As I told you before, there are many people who say they have found their soul mates and after a few months or years they are throwing things at their heads.
The essence of man is to love, man "needs" to feel loved, because love is the only reality. The problem is that the man does not know how he loves himself. We believe that love is something that occurs automatically, as we all know how to love just by the mere fact of being born and being love. It would really be so, but negative spiritual beings deceive parents, governments, religions, etc., into educating men with fear, which is the opposite of love.
People do not fail in relationships because they are not meant for them, but because they do not know how to love. Love can be consciously expressed towards anyone just by learning how. The Heart Virtues are a good example, but few parents, governments, religions (yes, religions) educate children with the Heart Virtues. Notice that I say "Heart Virtues" and not "Love Virtues" since love is also included in the Virtues and is also part of the Heart chakra.
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| Soulmates. Only good love creates Perfect Couples |
Love can be expressed in daily life consciously. Somehow we have been deceived into believing that feelings have to arise on their own, and not that we can create them in a conscious, active, dynamic way. Well yes, love can be created consciously. You can love whoever you want, you can spread love and also fall in love with whoever you want, in fact I recommend my students to fall in love with God, with life, with themselves...
Passion can also be created consciously, you just have to "add fuel to the fire" to keep it alive, burning, and from a spark we can create a flare, and if the fire is out we can easily create a spark, it's just that, it's just like that.
Most people live manipulated by their teachings, taboos, prejudices, preconceived ideas, that is, they are programmed to fall in love with certain determined people. Really when we fall in love unconsciously (subconsciously), it is our parents and educators who choose our partner, our fears, expectations, frustrations, sorrows and heartbreak. We are never (I do not include myself and the occasional Master who are masters of their lives and create it as they wish) we who choose our partners but rather our life, past and relatives.
On the other hand, we have the human being so eager to meet his sentimental needs that he idealizes a perfect partner that will make him happy. I also once wrote that "one void cannot fill another void." The vast majority of people are full of complexes, fears, frustrations, disappointments, sentimental losses, traumas, sorrows, and that is why they are not happy. Another person who makes him happy (a soul mate) who adapts and heals the first time (if he is not a good Healer, of course) will never be able to come into their lives. The other person in the relationship is also full of fears, traumas and frustrations, and so a lot of negative energies collide with each other and sooner or later explode, creating a negative relationship, total unhappiness.
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| Soulmates. We can all be Master Healers of the World |
Falling in love (scientists say because they don't know me , or am I the exception that breaks the rule) doesn't last more than a few months, never more than two years. The flame of falling in love, of passion (the energy called Kundalini), goes out, why? The answer is because we fell in love with an ideal that we believed would make us happy, an ideal that appears to be the way we want it to be and that desire activates the energies of our Major Chakra System, we feel great, plethoric, full, ... in love . When the relationship falls into the daily routine, the flame of passion fades, we move away from the Kundalini energy, we realize that our ideal was not perfect as we wished, that is, that "the king also has holes in his underpants" to put it another way.
Also make it clear that although most people believe that happiness is something inside, they continue to look for it outside. The vast majority of human beings believe that they are not happy because they lack something and that something will make them happy. They try to get what they lack in search of happiness what advertising specialists know.
Forget! Those apparently completely happy families that you see on television eating corn flakes in the morning do not exist. Advertising managers know about the desire for happiness that comes with feeling loved, and the happy families that sell the products we consume are mere fiction, the "bait" that companies use to make us "bite" and buy those products that they want to sell us.
We also have a tendency to believe that "the grass is greener in the neighbor's garden", and it is not so, your neighbor is just as unhappy as you, no matter how many masks he puts on before going out.
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| Only by being happy can you share that happiness |
Only by being happy can you share that happiness with another person, and only love can fill the inner emptiness of the human being and make you happy, it is about self-love. That love is the one that heals the soul of man. When you heal your life, you do not need anything or anyone to bring you "happiness" because you are already happy, that is when you become aware that in all the relationships you have, you will have to educate and heal them so that other people also become happy by themselves, and only then can they find a soul with another soul and be happy together because they were already happy before they met.
The belief in soul mates, as well as in future incarnations, is a myth created from the desire for happiness of the human being, unable to believe himself capable of creating his life consciously, believing that destiny will bring him, perhaps one day , all the happiness you want and deserve.
Make no mistake, don't sit and wait for fate, most likely it will never come and you will spend your whole life sitting down. Begin to heal your life and you will become happy when you eliminate from your soul everything that prevents you from being yourself , then you will be able to share that happiness with the rest of the world... and you will not need (I assure you) or soul mates, nor half oranges, nor anything else, that make you happy, simply because you already are...
Kisses heart
Damian Alvarez at http://sistemasanaciontinerfe.blogspot.com/
