Thursday, December 15, 2022

You have the right to love and be loved

Teaching and Consultation Book of the School of Love
of the Tinerfe Healing System. Professor Damian Alvarez

After many attempts in my life to explain to other people that we DON'T know how to live with love, that we DON'T know how to love, that we don't even know what love is, and failed in a big way, to create a real School of Love, perhaps the first in the world is my project, where we all learn to truly love.

Many people have gotten angry with me when I have told them that they do not know how to love since they believed that love was innate in every human being and that to love you should not learn, but rather that we are all born learned. In truth, that is how it should be. When we are born we are very close to ourselves, to God, to love and to love, but over time, first our parents, and then the religious, educational, social, and even economic systems educate us to live without love, we They educate to live in fear.

Life is a School of Love. He who does not Love fails

A selfish education based on "first and last me". A materialistic education that elevates consumerism by comparing it to the value of the human being, and if you cannot consume you are nobody, you are not someone. An education based on worries, insecurities, doubts, needs, profit, interest, that is, an education based on fear, separates us from ourselves, from God and from love and loving.

It really isn't anyone's fault. In schools, institutes, universities or families, one does not educate to love. If you don't know how to love, you don't love, or how would you do it? Really too, what to love if we know but the erroneous education to which we have been subjected buried that love so deeply under so many years of fear that it will be very difficult for it, and in a few moments in life, to rise to the surface of the human heart and express yourself.

We live believing that we love because we believe that what they have taught us is love but they have deceived  us and continue to deceive us daily: "He who buys him more gifts at Christmas does not love his son more", "he does not love his partner more who buys her the most valuable jewel". He loves who distributes the money he earns with the parents of the children who are in need. A lover who helps a stranger get a job so he can support his wife.

Let's take advantage of our earthly life. Let's be smart: Let's love

Loving relatives is supposed to be normal but we are a global family, we are all one. The entire humanity is a family, it should be.

Class struggles, power struggles, races after money and ephemeral materialism leave no room for love, nor for loving anyone, nor for loving God.

The system does not make it easy either by promoting maternal love, brotherly love, love in pairs, creating groups that do not love humanity but live locked in a lie, while the rest of the world falls apart because we destroy it.

Couple sex is not love. Love is love and sex is sex. Don't be afraid of a hug and don't confuse it with sex because that's just fear. They never hugged you, they never said "I love you", and that's why you look for that hug and that "I love you" in the arms of a sexual relationship? I feel sorry for you but  you have the right to be loved just because you exist and also, not by a few or one, but by all members of the human race.