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| Energetic or Needy Vampire. Choose your Answer |
Not so long ago, it has been seen, read, heard, in the media, the Internet, social networks, etc., that we must separate ourselves from negative people. Phrases like: "Don't let others use your mind like a garbage can", "stay away from negative people", "separate yourself from those who always come telling you their problems", "negative people are energetic parasites", "no let them steal your energy ”,“ those who complain are energy vampires, etc., etc., etc.
Believe me, those who dare to make such resounding statements consider themselves spiritual guides, religious leaders, scientists, doctors and teachers, and even psychologists. Believe me, those who dare to make such resounding affirmations consider themselves the brilliant minds, the enlightened minds of mankind.
How sad to hear the above! I am aware that thinking negatively, complaining, is not beneficial for anyone, but not everyone who complains, complains out of habit or vice (although there could be one). The person who complains is because he suffers. The negative person is, because they are emotionally ill, and of course, both of them need our help and attention, and not "that we separate from them."
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| The Negative person does not choose his Suffering of his own free will |
There are several aspects that must be addressed when we talk about this topic:
The emotional or energetic aspect: A person is negative because he is frustrated, saddened and traumatized. Energetic blockages in the Heart Chakra, Solar and Sacral Plexus, turn any person into a sad, depressed, sad, bitter and negative being, so we can consider these people to be mentally ill.
A depressed person will impossibly be able to think positive. A traumatized person will impossibly be able to think positive. An impossibly frustrated person will be able to think positive. Negative thoughts, feelings, emotions are just a symptom of a real illness.
It does not help that you tell a negative, depressed, traumatized person, etc., "Think positive", because simply a negative, depressed, traumatized person cannot think positive because they are sick, and they do not need words but healing.
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| Do not be selfish. Never Abandon the One Who Needs Your Help |
The professional aspect: I am amused that certain supposed psychologists of high birth are capable of calling sick people parasites and energy vampires. If these so-called psychologists (for me, they are not) believe that we should separate ourselves from negative people, then what patients do they want to have? Healthy, balanced, positive, cheerful, optimistic and happy people. Happy people don't need psychologists, hey!
The foolishness or aberration of a "psychologist" saying "separate yourself, stay away from negative people", conclusively demonstrates not only that the psychologist in question needs psychological help, but also that he does not have a heart. The same I say when the postulates that are discussed are expressed by scientists, religious, spiritual guides, ... It is like a doctor saying separate yourself from sick people, totally absurd!
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| You would abandon your Son if he complained about his Suffering ... |
The human aspect: Would you separate yourself from your mother, father, or children because they complained or were negative? Would you abandon them in their pain and suffering? Have you never complained or had negative thoughts? What should we do when we have negative thoughts, or complain, according to these people, take our own lives?
Understand that the negative person, the person who complains, maybe just needs a few words of encouragement, praise, a little moral support, a pat on the back, someone to listen to you and give you a hug or take your hand. hand.
Have we perhaps forgotten about love, empathy, compassion, what really characterizes the human being and differentiates it from the beasts?
Have we not already separated ourselves sufficiently from those who suffer, such as the 6,000 children who die of hunger every day on the planet, who still want to separate us from our closest beings?
... and what tells me about "love your neighbor", "we are all one and come from the same source", "union, solarity, support", "love your enemies". Was Jesus Christ wrong according to those religious leaders, guides spirituals and psychologists, when he said that every time we help our neighbor, we are really helping him? Was Jesus Christ wrong when he said that we should love the neighbor's child the same as ours? I don't think so ...
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| Why separate ourselves from reality, why not, better to help |
The "spiritual development" aspect: In these culminating moments of humanity's spiritual development, where so-called "quantum leaps" seem endless. In these moments when God wants us more than ever to realize that we are all one, that humanity and the rest of creation are an indivisible unit, it seems to me very little sense to speak of separatism and discrimination. We all feel for everyone and as long as there is even one on planet Earth, who suffers, we will suffer with him.
Separating ourselves from others because they think, speak negatively, complaining about their hardships seems totally absurd to me, because we have all complained at times, because we have all been negative at times.
Understand that every time we separate from someone, we are really separating from ourselves, because we are all, because we are more than independent beings, we are one, with others, creation and with God.
We, the healers, know that many people, right now, are awakening to the true and only exposed reality ("we are one"). Many people are becoming aware that we are all united, therefore, he who complains because he suffers, perhaps he is only feeling your suffering in his own body and soul.
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| Do not leave me. I just needed help to heal you |
In my books "Interaction and Energetic Resonance between Human Beings", "Breathe Reiki", "The Solar Plexus, the Sun of your Life" and Sacral Chakra, Passion of Life "(see: http://www.bubok.es / authors / damianalvarez ) I explain logically and sincerely how human beings feel and can suffer from diseases, dysfunctions and energy blockages of other human beings, and that all disease is contagious, at least at the energy level. I also present many cases real life itself.
The healing child or healing link (black sheep of each family), who is always sick, who always suffers, who always complains, can very well be a burden on the family. What the family does not know is that thanks to that "black sheep", the family remains balanced, since the healing child absorbs the negative energies that would make the rest of the family members sick if he did not exist. So then, should we separate ourselves from the one or those who feel bad because of our own sufferings and illnesses? Apart from the extreme selfishness that such a procedure entails, who will heal us then?
I do not recommend that you separate yourself from those who complain, or from negative people. Try to understand that if they complain it is because they suffer, even though we do not see "their cross". Try to get closer, help, accompany, listen, console, encourage, ... Try to Love and Heal your neighbor because we are all children of the same God and therefore "soul brothers", "brothers of light".
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| Mutual help. Divine essence that transcends us, Uniting us |
Also do not follow the roll of those (so-called) spiritual guides, religious leaders, scientists, psychologists, etc., who advise you to do the opposite of my recommendations. Do not believe anything because "a brilliant mind of humanity" says so, try to think for yourself, and that way they will not deceive you, they will not separate you from your brothers.
For me, and I say it with my heart in hand, those supposed spiritual guides and leaders of humanity, who preach, fostering separatism among human beings, are not far from "enlightened minds", rather "dark minds and sick ". For example, someone who throws a tunic of a certain color over his body after shaving his head does not become a spiritual guide. Spirituality is demonstrated with facts and "by its fruits you will know the tree."
Bear in mind that the first to complain have been those people we are talking about, because they complain about those who complain, and the separatist stance they demonstrate is totally negative.
Do not separate yourself from others, do not dig your own grave, because there will come a day that you also need the help of others, and you will find yourself alone.
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| Do not separate yourself from anyone, since the others are you. It is Divine Union |
Keep in mind also, that garbage is not what a negative person can transmit to you but what certain leaders try to instill in your mind.
Perhaps they are not aware of his words, perhaps they have been manipulated to manipulate, perhaps it is a worldwide plot promoted by still unknown forces, so that the human being is weakened in their separation. What is clear is that such outrage is at the height of Hitler's philosophy, so do not be an accomplice, because in the end they will blame your decisions only on you. Remember, nowadays, it is often heard that the blame for the massacre of World War II was not Hitler, but us who allowed it, likewise, they will blame you for the spiritual massacre that is being "sewn up. "and" cooking.
Do not allow anything, or anyone, to separate you from others, even less that they put that scandalous idea in your head. One of the first things that I usually teach my students is "everything I try to separate does not come from God" , but if you still doubt my words, remember the following from Jesus Christ: "So that they may all be One; like You, oh Father , in me, and I in You, may They also be one in Us "(John 17:21)
PS Anyone who believes that the feelings and emotions of a human being, whether positive or negative are rubbish, it is rubbish (needed to say).
